Threesomes are much like bungee jumping. If you walk down the street trying to recruit a bungee jumping partner, you’re bound to get very frustrated! Even if you offer large sums of money, many people will turn you down. If your life depended on it and you really had to get a bungee jumping recruit, you’d probably end up snatching someone off the street, threatening him or her; handcuffing them and dragging them to the top of the crane... even if all goes well, after the jump you’d likely be arrested and sued for all you’re worth.

If you concentrate on those who hate bungee jumping, you’ll fail. The trick is to find someone who wants to jump and then make it easy for that person to join you. This is exactly how you should recruit for your threesome; find those who are interested and make it easy for them to join you.

Landing Your Airplane at the Right Airport

The most important rule for pilots is to have a flight plan before take-off. In other words, they need to know where they are headed before taking off. If they don’t have a flight plan it’s highly unlikely they’ll be able to reach their destination, and even worse, they might run out of fuel and might be unable to find a place to land.

Anything is possible but you’d be better off concentrating on the probable.To expedite your quest, begin by distinguishing between the attainable and the unrealistic. I recommend you take some time to complete your flight plan before rushing for take off.

The Dream Candidate

Most men have already identified their ideal threesome play mate. She’s a beautiful 19-year-old blonde, tall, bisexual girl with large firm breasts looking like Mena Suvari starring in American Beauty, desperately seeking the thrills of your bed.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I think is time for you guys to wake up! This ideal icon is as hard to find as a needle on a hay stack.Possibly your dream girl DOES exist, but it will be a long struggle trying to find her! Remember; many of these girls are still waiting for the “White Knight in shining armor to arrive on the white horse".

Besides, remember everything in life is about understanding psychology. Sorry to break this news to you, but the psychology of this type of girl is probably not ready to experience a threesome. You’ll be better off scratching the young, innocent, tight-body from your list (at least for your first threesome experience). When you’re a bit more experienced you can go after finding your dream candidate! :-)

Realistic Candidates For Your 1st Threesome

Setting your aims on the experienced bisexual women probably won’t be easy either. Experienced bisexual women know how to read the signals and will immediately decode your early efforts to recruit her. If your target female were comfortably bi-sexual, experienced at threesomes and willing to join you, she would’ve already eased your dilemma by discreetly making it known she was available!

I’m not saying that no experienced bi-sexual woman will join you in bed for a little fun. If she likes you both, possibly she’ll easily seduce you, however, it will be more the exception than the rule.

I sudggest your wife or girlfriend does the recruiting...

For beginners, a threesome is strange uncharted territory. Remember; most women won’t venture very far without unequivocal approval and active encouragement from the other woman. The bond is more probable, much faster and smoother if it comes at the request of the female side of the seducing couple. By initiating the action, she gives approval and active encouragement to her new friend. Furthermore, a woman can extend invitations, make suggestions, ask questions and discuss issues that, coming from a guy won’t be easily accepted.

Women quickly learn to avoid couples where the male does all the recruiting. It usually means the wife is not really interested. It’s very important that your wife or partner gets actively involved in the recruiting for your prospective candidate. Another fact not widely known is that many bi-curious women are very attracted to females, and when they receive attention from another female, their hormones start moving around fast.

Moral of the storey : Make sure your lady is involved !!